The Pyschology of Falling In Love
Love is a state that exists within you and someone more active than the state to fall in love. How does the psychological process? "Can you think of someone in your life that immediately brings a smile to your face or a warm feeling inside you?" One of those people for me was my high school drama teacher, Mr. Niven. He was hailed as a great director, because of plays and musicals he produced. What really made him great, although it was their teaching skills. He had a magical quality about him that brought out the best in almost everyone in the class. He created a safe place for students of drama for which we feel we can express ourselves freely on stage. And that was the key: brought out in us what existed in us. All I had to do was take our talent. We make great actors, revealed the great actor in every one of us. Therefore, we had a great admiration for him and a strong bond, connection, affinity and affection for him. This story is an analogy to explain that when you find the person who knows how to turn yourself into that state or feelings that already exist within you, then fall in love. There are four steps in the process leading to fall in love: 1. The meeting 2. Acceptance3. Comfort Building 4. The association of positive emotions and attaching to the meeting other personThe Imagine being in a bar or restaurant. You know someone and their eyes connect. There is an attraction. He likes to watch the person. A smile or a look is irresistible, and now he or she starts talking to you. There is something in his voice or something about the accent turns me on. Perhaps the words that are used to stimulate it. Acceptance into the conversation, you talk about interests, hobbies, dreams, desires and begin to feel accepted by this person. He or she may even use the words "I love you. Comfort building one of you will start to open up and share personal stories about past pains and joys. The other person may respond in the same way or not. Either way, you feel safe enough to begin to speak. From start to create a level of trust and sincerity. The association of positive emotions and attaching the other person feels fine now with the other person and yourself. You feel confident and go on dates with this person and has a lot of fun. Maybe you're on a roller coaster together, taking walks on the beach, watching movies or just hang out. They are now experiencing a lot of pleasure and positive emotions. And you think that emotions are directly attributable to that person and what they subconsciously associate the pleasure and ecstasy with that person. Soon, you start wanting that person and feel in love. How did this happen? It is a part of human behavior and neurology that is automatically associated with positive emotions and attach to the person who was with us when we experience emotions. And the more intense the experience, the deeper we associate and identify that person with those emotions. For example, you will remember that rollercoaster ride with that person for a very long time, because it is an intense emotional experience. Therefore, more time you spend around this person, and having more positive emotions with this person, to associate more pleasure and joy with him or her. Then you feel you are in love. Intense positive emotions of pleasure, joy and ecstasy become synonymous with that person and when you think of the joy, thinking about it. When you think of the happiness that you think about it. When you feel the ecstasy to think about it. When you think of the affection that you think about it. This is how you love. Many teenagers often fall in love with pop stars and celebrities in the fantasy created in your mind that by joining the positive emotions and expectations with the pop star or celebrity. The same goes for fancy people working in online dating before their first meeting. The thrill of anticipation of the meeting and the joy and fun potential to make the body release hormones and chemicals that create a state of euphoria. "
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